Wednesday, March 14, 2018

What Are the Pros and Cons of Assisted Living?

What Are the Pros and Cons of Assisted Living?

by Chrissy Turner

 

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What Are the Pros and Cons of Assisted Living?

Currently, around one million Americans live in a senior living community, with numbers expected to double by 2030. The lifespan of the average American has grown thanks to technological and scientific advances, and by the year 2040, the number of people aged over 85 is expected to reach a total of 14.1 million.

According to American Senior Communities, there are more women than men in assisted living facilities, with the average resident being a woman aged around 87 who still enjoys mobility and whoenjoy good mental health, but who may require help with a few everyday tasks such as bathing, medication, food preparation, etc. If you are considering assisted living for yourself or a loved one, these are a few important considerations:

The Pros of Assisted Living

As numbers of elderly Americans continue to increase,the quality ofassisted living is rising to the occasionin terms of the range of services. The Centers for Disease Control recently conducted the National Study of Long-Term Care Providers study, to analyze and monitor the scope of long-term care. The study showed that assisted living centers now have more mental health and counselling services than in the past, as well as anincreased awareness of memory care, with one in ten residential care communities dedicating themselves solely to dementia care.

In addition to having their memory needs and daily activities taken care of, seniors who opt for assisted living can also avail of the social opportunities offered by communal living. Studies show thatsocial interaction is vitalto promote greater physical and mental wellbeing in the elderly, yet many seniors living on their own, far away from family, can lack opportunities for social get-togethers.

Assisted living centers offer the privacy that nursing homes lack, yet do away with home maintenance and chores; that is, they offer independence with assistance as and when required. They are ideal for those who need help with specific activities, but who wish to retain their independence.

Some seniors choose to have home care by trained professionals; this can work well, but seniors should factor in the costs involved. Home care can set them back $30 or more per hour, and there is a chance that the senior will not 'click' with the carer assigned to them.

The Cons of Assisted Living

Assisted living isn't for everyone, since the nationwide average monthly cost for this arrangement stands at over $3,650. Seniors requiring Alzheimer's or Memory Care services, meanwhile, will have to pay $1,000 or more in additional fees.

Those who have chronic conditions, meanwhile, may require a higher level of attention, making a nursing facility a better choice.

Finally, seniors who do not wish to live in close proximity with others may prefer remaining in their own home, with a part-time assistant helping them with daily activities such as cooking and bathing. For some seniors, the ideal solution is a blend of professional and personal assistance; that is, family members or friends can aid professional home carers, with each taking on part-time duties.

The choice of living independently, living in an assisted living facility, or  opting for a nursing home, depends on various factors such as budget, need for independence, and one's state of health. It is vital for seniors to consider their future even before they retire, so they can make financial and other changes that will enable them to age with dignity and due care.

 

Saturday, January 28, 2017

Harmony Cafe Saturday February 4th 11-2pm Kitty Hawk United Methodist Church

 

 

Co-hosts   UUCOB

 

Program

11a meet and greet

11:05 visit with Buddy

11:15 Valentine’s Day cards Craft                                              w/ Susan & Cathy  

11:45 Exercise Class with Lisa, Nola & JJ

12:30 Lunch with Sara and Rose  UUCOB

1:15 Music with Angelo, Andrew & Kent?

2p goodbyes

 

Please let us know if you can join us as a favor to our chefs!

 

 

Gail E. Sonnesso, MS, QDCS

AFA Excellence in Care Specialist

GEM DAY SERVICES, INC.

252-480-3354

www.gemdayservices.org

https://www.facebook.com/TheGemCenter

https://www.facebook.com/obxTheRiffTides/

 

 

 

 

 

Thursday, January 19, 2017

GEM to Provide Screenings in Partnership with GWEP

 

FREE screenings for memory, falls risk, depression will be provided on Friday February 10th at the Dare County Center in Manteo from 10 - 1pm. 

GEM is partnering with the Geriatrics Workforce Enhancement Program (GWEP) and GEM will provide information about our programs of support for families caring for a person living with dementia and tips about “The Next Steps!”
To register or for more information call Gail Sonnesso, Executive Director of GEM at 252-480-3354

 

 

Sunday, January 15, 2017

Join Now - AFA's Newest Evening Telephone-Based Support Group CARING FOR A Spouse

 

Hello Friends,

I have found the ALZ foundation to be a great help not only for me but  it provides many educational materials and workshops and even has a support group for professionals to help us to better support our families.

Being the caregiver for a spouse is completely different than caring for a parent.

Best,

gail

 

From: Alzheimer's Foundation of America [mailto:info@alzfdn.ccsend.com] On Behalf Of Alzheimer's Foundation of America
Sent: Thursday, January 12, 2017 4:16 PM
To: gsonnesso@gmail.com
Subject: Join Now - AFA's Newest Evening Telephone-Based Support Group

 

Caring for a Spouse

 

 

Alzheimer's Foundation of America, 322 Eighth Avenue, 7th Floor, New York, NY 10001

 

 

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"She was never social" or "he wouldn't want to do that!"

 

Author Gail Sonnesso, MS

January 14, 2017

 

“She was never social” or “he wouldn’t want to do that!” I am sure if you work with families caring for people living with dementia you have heard this response many times especially when you invite the caregiver to bring their loved one to a specialized dementia friendly program.

The caregiver is making this decision without trying the program and everyone loses! The caregiver misses learning what their loved one can still do and enjoy, the program loses out because “numbers” mean funding; and the person living with dementia misses an opportunity to experience being with other folks and  participating in meaningful activities!

Maybe a better way to invite folks to a program is to say “their loved one will be engaged”; they will laugh and be more fun to live with!” One wife said to me “that she had her husband back” when he returned from a day at GEM they would have something to talk about over dinner!

Another way to express that people are social might be to say “people need people!”  People living with dementia are still people with hopes and desiring lives filled with meaning and purpose.  They will benefit by being with others in a dementia friendly environment designed specifically for them. 

 

Families report to me that their loved one doesn’t want to do anything or won’t go out. My question is where do you go when you are out? Maybe it is the way you are asking them? Or maybe where you are asking them to go?

Caring for a person living with dementia who has lost their initiative and self-direction is exhausting for the primary caregiver, your day is not your own! Harmony CafĂ©, or an art class will give the person living with dementia a purpose and the caregiver relief or “Respite” from the caregiving role.

So many families who turn down day programs and place their loved ones in long term care report how they “thrive in the home because of ALL THE ACTIVITIES.” Think about it ….. Try a program and your loved one will have the best of both world’s meaningful days and being able to say at home longer!

 

Gail E. Sonnesso, MS, QDCS

AFA Excellence in Care Specialist

GEM DAY SERVICES, INC.

252-480-3354

www.gemdayservices.org

https://www.facebook.com/TheGemCenter

https://www.facebook.com/obxTheRiffTides/

Friday, January 13, 2017

" Fundraiser to benefit Endangered Sea Turtles

Nest link

" Fundraiser to benefit the Network for Endangered Sea Turtles. Raffles, win
great prizes. Silent Auction, NEST shirts & hats for sale; live music &
dancing by the Riff Tides. Food is also available for purchase off the
dinner and tapas menus. "


Angelo Sonnesso
President,
GEM Adult Day Services Inc.
http://www.gemdayservices.org
https://www.facebook.com/obxTheRiffTides/

Friday, December 30, 2016

PROJECT CARE SERVICE EXPANSION FOR NORTH CAROLINA

GEM TO PRESENT PROGRAM ON THE PROJECT CARE SERVICE EXPANSION FOR NORTH
CAROLINA
Project CARE (Caregivers Alternatives to Running on Empty) is the only
state-funded, dementia-specific support for caregivers who take care of
family members
with Alzheimer's disease. Project CARE is a coordinated delivery system that
is responsive to the needs, values and preferences of families who take care
of family member's with Alzheimer's disease. The Family Consultant for
Eastern North Carolina, Rosalind Pugh will be visiting this region on
January 12th
to explain the expansion and how to use the monies.
GEM's Gail Sonnesso, Excellence in Care Specialist, will discuss other
funding streams available to caregivers of people living with dementia and
other
disabilities.
We will meet Thursday January 12, 2017, 1-3pm at Roosters Southern Kitchen,
Located at 804 S. Croatan Hwy Kill Devil Hills. There is no charge but space
is limited so call Gail @ 252-480-3354 or email
gsonnesso@gmail.com
to register by Monday Jan 9th.

The NC General Assembly in 2014 required the NC Department of Health and
Human Services, Division of Aging and Adult Services to develop the state's
first
strategic plan addressing Alzheimer's disease and related dementias. The
Division, in partnership with the NC Institute of Medicine, along with a 47
member
task force, completed a plan in March 2016 entitled "Dementia Capable NC."
The Governor and the NC General Assembly responded favorably to the
recommendation
to expand Project CARE, including offering respite care by appropriating
$550,000 in funding. We invite eligible caregivers and interested parties to
come
to this workshop and learn how to receive vouchers for respite care.
Vouchers can be used to provide in-home respite and/or respite in group
settings,
including Adult Day Care or Adult Day Health Care. Caregivers are reimbursed
as respite care is utilized within the timeframe and amount of the awarded
voucher.
GEM is a community based non-profit serving families caring for a person
living with dementia on the Outer Banks since 1997. Visit our website at
http://www.gemdayservices.org
To register for Rosalind's overview of Project CARE email Gail at
gsonnesso@gmail.com
or call her at 252-480-3354 by Monday Jan 9th.